I figured it out! I figured out why he’s been bugging me so much as of late. He’s been sick and I realized he is absolutely oblivious to how aliments and medications work. He’s paranoid and asks questions that from my point of view are ridiculous. I shouldn’t be so surprised and should have more patience. But it does bother me; they’re things I think are common sense but don’t seem so much to him. Last night he had a migraine, he’s been having one since Wednesday, told me last night any sort of light seemed very bright to him. I asked him why he didn’t tell me sooner, said he just thought he was dehydrated. Except he’d been drinking water all day. He wasn’t puking or anything of the sort, no fever, nothing, so clearly he wasn’t losing water and still chalked it up to dehydration. Earlier that day he’d taken ibuprofen for his headache and two minutes later says oh ya I’m feeling great lets go out… … Medicine unless injected isn’t exactly instantaneous. I know for a fact things like Advil take about half an hour to kick in. It’s not his area of expertise nor can I say it’s mine, but really some of the things he asks are pretty elementary. So it grates on me. And he’s pigeon toed! Not that that really has an impact on anything, it’s just a pet peeve from dance. Turn out, turn out, turn out! Not in, out! Like I said I need to be more patient and not let little things get to me.
~Jasmine
I’m glad you were able to give this another chance and it seems like things are improving. I hope that open communication mixed with a lack of stupid questions on his part will be the cure, because he seems like a great guy other than that.
Snow White